12 reasons why you're single..

(Didn't write these my self. Just translated in to English..)


1. You're superficial

If you have evaluated all his flaws 
already in a few seconds on your first date, 
you can call your self superficial.
Even if the person is very attractive, you're still going to find flaws. 
Give him a chance!

2. You're too independent

There's a lot of good things about being single. 
For example you can come and go as you want.
But the truth is that at some point
you don't want to do everything by your self. 
If you don't want to be forever single, 
learn how to make compromises 
and give up a little of your independensy.

3. You don't take care of your self

Not taking good care of your self usually backfires on dating. 
If you don't care of your looks or your home is like after a bomb, 
it's time to look in the mirror. 
If you don't care, why would someone else care?

4. You're desperate

The truth is, desperation shines through for miles. 
So if you manage to get a number from a nice guy, 
it's not smart to start "bombard" him with phone calls 
and messages ten times a day..

5. You're too nice

You're always helpful, polite and nice. Every mans dream. Maybe not. 
Many men think being too nice is a weakness of personality 
and that doesn't turn him on.
Also show your tough side, 
this way you'll make him understand that you're not his "door mat".

6. You're a control freak

You like it when things go your way 
and you don't have room for compromises.
If you unnerve right away when you loose control, 
it's maybe time to loosen up a bit.

7. You're too shy

In life, there will come a day when you have to face your insecureness 
and deal with the fact that you're going to be alone forever.  
If you have no self-confidense what so ever when it comes to guy's, 
take some of your social friends with you 
and learn from how she/he approaches guy's.

8. You're a shellfish. JK!  You're selfish

If you only think about your self, 
you can be sure that you can do that for a very long time,
because you'll probably never gonna find a relationship/partner 
with that attitude. Try to put others before you more often.

9. You love your self

You are perfect and great. 
You don't need a relationship, 
because everything you do, say or own is so wonderful.
It must be great being you.

10. You're a work-aholic

A great job and a sense of direction are not bad things.
But they might ruin many opportunities for a relationship.
If you constantly have too little time for any social relations, 
you're practically already married - to your job.

11. You still love your ex

Your relationships will never work if you're still yearning for your past loves.
Best thing would be to move on and forget the past.
No-one wants to live in the shadow of an ex.
Not to mention that it's pathetic.

12. You're boring
No-one wants to hear the same thing a thousand times,
especially if it's not funny.



If you're going to talk a lot, at least be more interesting.
Otherwise you should just stay quiet 
and conceive mysterious image of your self.


~ Love. Nina ♥